Last year for Memorial Day, we went out to the cemetery and saw my dad’s headstone for the first time since it was placed. I was amazed at the amount of people there for the ceremony. I’m glad to have experienced it, but this year we decided that a quiet remembrance of the day was more in line with how I’m feeling these days. But, I thought it would be nice to share some of the photos I took last year.
I love that they place a flag at each of the graves. And the ceremony was very nice and so moving.
You can sort of get a feel from the photos how many people were actually there. We had to park offsite and take a bus into the cemetery.
Such a site to see.
I brought some red and white carnations to put on my dad’s grave. Nothing to compare to the wreath below, but I’m glad I brought them.
The weather was hot hot hot last year, and boy did I get sunburned after standing outside for hours. But it was worth it.
I think this year, instead of going at Memorial Day, I’ll go for his birthday, which is coming up in June. It will be a small and quiet memorial for just us. But, it will be just as important.
Thank you to all the men and women who have served our country. And thanks as well to those who remember and honor them.
I’ve been anxiously awaiting the release of The Great Gatsby for a good while. I couldn’t ask for a better cast, and Baz Luhrmann has directed some of my favorite films including Mouline Rouge. I’ve been thrilled to see Gastby parties pop up to celebrate the premiere of the film and people are breaking out their best flapper dresses and coupe champagne glasses.
One of the loveliest things I came across were the Tiffany windows, decked out with diamonds, chandeliers and coupe glasses.
Stunning, aren’t they?
Here is the featured diamond and pearl Savoy headpiece.
I love the Art Deco feel of these.
This one may be my favorite.
I can’t wait to make it to the theatre to see this masterpiece on the big screen. I know Lurhmann will deliver nothing less than a showpiece, full of all the dazzling glamour and tragedy that the book deserves.
And one of the things I’m most excited about with this film is the Lana del Rey song, Young and Beautiful. Such an amazing start to summer.
The months keep zooming by faster and faster and April was no exception. I’m really loving doing these month in photos posts, not only because it’s a great way to remember what the hell I was up to, but it’s also so interesting to see the way the photos change with the seasons – my photos from January are vastly different from these photos not only in subject matter but the light is so different!
So, April started off with a flight to New York for Eric’s grandmother’s funeral. I’m so glad that we were there, and got to spend a bit of time with family that we haven’t seen in a long while – some who I’d never met. And as I mentioned in my post about Easter, it really had a huge impact on me. And perhaps all of the feelings that were brought up by that period of time were what triggered my complete 180 mood swing? There were a couple of weeks there that I was so out of sorts, and so sad and angry that I could barely stand myself. I certainly couldn’t stand other people. And when I say a complete 180, I mean it. I went from happy Spring, happy bright sunny buttery yellow nail polish to my big “back off” warning sign of black nail polish. I did eventually emerge from the worst of it, but I still don’t feel like I’ve got my groove back.
I finished up the last of the Fever series on the plane back from NY, and I’d picked up the Jenny Lawson book in the airport so I started it on the way home. I just finished it yesterday and am starting something new for May.
Eric and I celebrated our seven (!!) year anniversary on the 8th and he made us a lovely dinner at home and brought me roses. I did some work on my dad’s memorial sampler and started assembling my Tula Pink quilt – both were unfortunately fraught with issues (I should probably have waited to work on things until I was over my whatever it was mood).
Things did start to turn around a little bit last week and I felt a little better, took a day off work and even painted my nails gold (OPI Glitzerland, which is a dupe for Chanel Diwali that I was seriously coveting!). I even had a few productive days at home doing some photo editing (I have a huge backlog) and getting some scanning done in our going paperless project at home. And I got to have a fabulous dinner with a coworker and we tried out a new to me restaurant called Whiskey Cake (where we, in fact, ordered whiskey cake). It was sooooo good!
So the month was not a total wash, and I’m hoping that I can begin to sort through what all was going on with me and get back to my happy place. But, it’s better. Oh, and a big big thank you to Eric for changing my little social media icons – I am much happier with them!!